How To Love

Just when you thought that this one was going to be different, just when you thought this would be the person that would help you re-define the meaning of love...it all falls apart and you are back to square one. Because you thought that you learned from your past mistakes, you thought that this time you will take a risk and this time, you felt that you were dealt the right hand...only to realize that everything you thought was a dream come true was just a mere illusion.

No one will tell another how to love because to each person it means something different while at the same time, each relationship embodies a different kind of love. Even though we try to do things differently in every relationship, saying that we've learned our lessons...what we don't recognize is that we are constantly learning. We rely on those type of experiences with other people to enlighten us in more ways than one but when the movie scripted scene does not play out, we go back and blame ourselves, boiling down to the same redundant statement...that maybe we weren't enough, that we didn't do something right... that we just didn't know how to love.

There is no perfect way to love someone. With love you say it through your words, you show it through your actions and most of all you feel it in your heart. The most important type of love that we need to learn is how to love ourselves. If we can't love ourselves then there is no way that we can love anyone else. In time we learn how to love when we are with someone, when we leave someone we love, or when a person that we love leaves us.

No one is perfect but  someone will come along and will love you for all that you are and they will admire your efforts because true love has no barriers. Whether things are meant to be or not, in the end we learn how to love the people and things in our lives; we learn how to love ourselves; and most importantly we learn how to love life.

One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life, that word is love. You can never go wrong when you learn how to love with that you are and there is no better love when you love with all of your heart.




..."Now you in the corner tryna put it together, how to love. See I just want you to know, that you deserve the best you’re beautiful."...